Lying and to be Lied at…

The title said it all… one is bad and one is shit… They’re both are from the same word. Lie. Which in my field of knowledge, it’s the one that keep feeding someone or something to bullshits. To shorten it up, it’s bullshit.

So why do we lie and what would we gain from these things called lying? Well, we all know what it’s for, but shits won’t do until we realize what really this lies is.

I lied, I didn't study.. Heh.. 

We lied because we feel like it. In one way that is we lied because we want to cover up something. Maybe for our gain or for someone else’s interest? I understand the feeling to lie for oneself but for others, I don’t really get it, if only you had something mutual to share or feeling behind the reason you lied, I’m okay with that. But what of the one’s with nothing and accept the pain that the others did? Is it ego or is it something else? To gain something maybe? Well, that is one way to put it.

I was taught not to lie… but I did it otherwise, because it’s how the world supposed to go. The world is full of lies. And we played that so called ‘liar’ game every minute that we live. Is that a lie too? Maybe. So, may I ask you a question? What do you feel when you’re lying to someone? Fun, guilt, somewhat-bum? Tell it to yourself and answer it if you must. As so I didn't get it myself...

To the next topic then, to be lied at? Am I the only one who feels like I’m being fucked up and stabbed by someone? Well, of course not, everyone hates to be lied at. Every single one of us. If you’re not, then maybe you’re not a human or you just happened to become the person of all forgiveness that this world has to offer. And that would be inhuman.

To be lied in a relationship, to be lied in business, to be lied this and that. Friends lying, our girlfriends/boyfriends lied to us, parents, our bosses, company associates, teachers, lecturers, salesman, prime minister, and blah blah blah… everyone we know tends to lie to us in a very way that we didn’t notice only when we know the truth. Or is it?

Well, some lies are meant for good, and some are for the bad stuff. Like when you children ask what sex is, or where do babies come from. Should we say the truth or the other good stuff? Or like we rob a shop and the police interrogate us. Would you say the truth about what you did?

No, I don't smoke.. Seriously..

As time goes on, lies are like peanut butter and jelly. It cannot be separated from the human heart. The invention of lying is the ultimate achievement to us human. Because we can do anything with it. Or do we?

Yours truly,

Freed.